How is the journey going you wonder? Overall, we are very happy with our journey. We have learned a ton about our lifestyle, eachother and ways to spice it up.
On a journey there will be ups, downs and sometimes even some sideways. But together we are taking it in stride and improving along the way. One thing that we seem to struggle with is how to keep it new and exciting. The key to spicing it up, is keeping your limits in mind. In the moment you may feel like it could be okay, then later regretting it. I believe it is best to hold off on those crazy thoughts and have a conversation not in the heat of things. Always keep your mind clear, be open to conversations and always be honest. The truth may not be what they want to hear, but it way better than fibbing and causing a much bigger problem down the road.
Somedays it is so easy for us, it's like we have always been in this. Then there are days where we struggle, mostly because life weighs you down. I have a multitude of daily tasks that I had input on, and genuinely enjoy them. Honestly my house is pretty clean because it is tasked lol. Somedays I am just plain tired, cranky or just have nothing left. As Daddy says though, when I feel overwhelmed I need to come to him calmly and ask for his help. Which as a good daddy, he will either help me complete a task, pause it or have me use points to skip it.
For those struggling to keep up on tasks I strongly recommend an app. Yes there is even an app for this. It has truly been the best, makes it so much easier to keep track of everything. For him, he can assign tasks, update them, check my progress and even give me prizes for being an extra good girl. For me, it gives me a nice daily to do list that I can feel happy and accomplished when I mark the task complete. Plus he created special messages to me for different tasks. As a submissive I do enjoy my "good girl" moments throughout my day.